The Crash (w/ your besties who would never do you likethat)It’s been a year (ish) of podcasting, a long stretch of “life be lifin’,” and somehow we’re still troubleshooting our microphones like it’s our first day. In this episode, Bekah and Ruha finally reunite after a chaotic season of colds, school-year burnout, missed concerts, and general long‑distance‑bestie shenanigans.We talk about the end‑of‑school-year nonsense (coloringpages, Hamilton screenings, Taco Bell runs), being “work moms” to pre-teens who cringe at our slang, and the third‑grade sign that simply said “bruh.” Ruha shares updates on her upcoming Japan trip — JR passes, ryokan stays, Studio Ghibli dreams, and the horrors of third‑partyhotel booking — while Bekah recounts surviving ahurricane evacuation in a $700 “suite” that was absolutely not a suite.Then we dive into the main event: The Crash, the Netflixdocumentary that sent Bekah down a multi‑platform rabbit hole. We walk through the Strongsville, Ohio case of Mackenzie Shirilla, Dominic Russo, and Davion Flanagan — the social media footprint, the car analytics, the trial, the parents, the excuses, the verdict, and the chilling details that point to deliberate intent. It’s heavy, infuriating, and sparks a bigger conversation about parenting, empathy, and the world our kids are growing up in.And then (because Midnight Cheesecake always ends withdessert) we slide into Spot’s Playground, where Bekah brings a gory horror flick and Ruha brings… High School Musical 2. Balance. Mentioned in Today’s Episode🎬 The Crash (2026) — Netflix DocumentaryThe film that kicked off Bekah’s deep dive into theStrongsville case. https://www.netflix.com/title/81727333📺Killer Cases — “Murder on Wheels” (A&E) One of the docuseries episodes Bekah watched for additionalfootage and context. https://www.aetv.com/shows/killer-cases📺 Mean Girl Murders — “Under the Influence” (Investigation Discovery) Another docuseries episode covering the same case from adifferent angle. https://www.investigationdiscovery.com/show/mean-girl-murders-investigation-discovery🎥 Obsession (2026) — Bekah’s Spot’s Playground Pick A gory horror film about a wish gone wrong and a love turneddeadly. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt30360371/🎬 High School Musical 2 (2007) — Ruha’s Spot’s Playground Pick Disney nostalgia, summer vibes, and Zac Efron. https://www.disneyplus.com/movies/high-school-musical-2/4x8tqz9tq9tP🎬 Ready or Not (2019) — Ruha’s Horror‑Comedy Pick Bloody, funny, chaotic — and the start of the franchise. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7798634/🎬 Ready or Not 2: Here I Come (2026) — Ruha’s Sequel Pick The follow‑up she and James watched recently. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt30360369/ Find us here:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakeFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak Email: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com
Homecoming & Returning to the People Who Knew YouSomehow we blinked and suddenly it was time to record again — and naturally, the universe greeted us with a full buffet of tech gremlins. Bekah’s headphones refused to headphone, Ruha’s right eye refused to eye, and at one point the microphone simply gave up on life. But did we stop? No. We podcasted through the static like long‑distance besties do. Because what's the alternative? Hanging up??This week, we’re talking homecoming — the kind that sneaks up on you when you return to a place, a group, or a moment in your life that still knows you by heart. Ruha just got back from her high school reunion, and Bekah spent the weekend in Pennsylvania soaking up family time, cousin chaos, and that familiar “I never want to leave… until I want my own bed” energy.We also talk about legendary families that bring a school community together, the magic of small‑school bonds, the emotional whiplash of Sweet Home Alabama when you're from Alabama and hearing it absolutely anywhere else, and why “Country Roads” is basically the unofficial global anthem of nostalgia. Plus: Darrell sightings, Girl Scout sash imposters, boba deprivation, and the karaoke betrayal heard ‘round the world, or at least in Houston.It’s cozy, chaotic, and very Midnight Cheesecake.Mentioned in Today’s EpisodeBackpack Battles - Ruha’s Spot’s Playground pick. A cozy, adorable auto‑battler she’s been loving.https://store.steampowered.com/app/2379780/Backpack_Battles/ Find us here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak Email: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.comChapters00:00 – Tech Gremlins Return02:00 – Teacher Appreciation Week Chaos03:40 – Pennsylvania Trip & Cousin Time05:00 – When Do You Start Feeling Like a “Woman”?06:00 – Microphone Meltdown of 202607:00 – Artemis, Space Nerd Joy, and Stolen Valor08:00 – Meeting Daryl IRL10:00 – Media Appearances & NASA Feelings12:00 – Girl Scout Sash Shenanigans13:00 – Bekah’s Family & Shared Adversity15:00 – ASMS, The Zellners, and Generational Community18:00 – Nerd Kids Are the Best Kids20:00 – Boarding School Life & Weekend Escapes22:00 – Homecoming on the Road24:00 – The Sweet Home Alabama Breakdown26:00 – Karaoke Betrayal & Country Roads29:00 – Music, Memory, and Why It Hits So Hard39:49 – Spot’s Playground: Apple Butter & Backpack Battles
Artemis II, hope, chaos, Nutella, and the return of four very exhilarated astronauts🧁 This week, Ruha and Bekah recount the emotional rollercoaster of the Artemis II mission — from Houston send‑offs to moon‑side tears to the triumphant return home. Ruha recounts her whirlwind two weeks of space‑nerding and being recognized by NASA interns (again). Bekah brings the relatable energy of someone who meant to watch the launch but rolled her ankle and got pulled into Scrubs instead.Together, they unpack astronaut camaraderie, viral memes, the surreal beauty of lunar orbit, and why watching four competent humans do something hard felt like collective therapy. Also: Nutella in zero‑G, the Carroll Crater, and the Sally Ride question — would 100 tampons be enough for space?What we talk aboutRuha’s Houston trip: Space Center visits, book signings, and accidentally ending up at an astronaut send‑offThe very small crowd of civilians who showed up (and the NASA employees who absolutely did)The “Who’s Reid?” moment that will haunt Ruha foreverThe Artemis II launch: Bekah vs. ScrubsViral astronaut content: salutes, socks, Nutella, and the golden‑hour braid admired ‘round the worldThe Welcome Home parade at Johnson Space Center and putting out a 3‑million‑view video for the history booksEarthjoy, Moonjoy, and the collective sigh of relief when the capsule splashed down safelyWhat in Spot's Playground?Bekah: The Bible Is Funny card game - chaotic scripture pairings, out‑of‑context verses, and the perfect Galentine’s‑night energyRuha: Miniature kits from Anavrin — thick, high‑quality pieces, no painting required, and the perfect pre‑Japan‑trip cozy craftFor Midnight CheesecakeRuha: Girl Scout Lemonades — buttery, bright, melt‑in‑your‑mouth perfectionBekah: A vintage‑mold rainbow Jell‑O masterpiece made by Devon (friend of the pod, hype girl, legend)Final ThoughtsThis episode is pure joy — moon joy, earth joy, and the joy of watching your besties process a historic moment in real time. If you needed hope, wonder, or just a reminder that humans can still do beautiful things together… this one’s for you.
🍰 Midnight Cheesecake — Trending in Snuggle Premium, ApparentlyAfter an unintentional two‑week break (time blindness strikes again), Bekah and Ruha are back with cozy vibes, spring weather updates, and the kind of long‑distance bestie energy that feels like slipping into stretchy pants.Right out of the gate, we we apologize for the two weeks that we just didn’t post. “Has it been two weeks? My God.”And yes — a Peanuts Halloween sweatshirt makes an appearance. In April.The pod is apparently climbing the charts in categories we didn’t know existed:#11 — Midnight Listening#8 — Light Topics#3 — Snuggle Premium (still no idea what this means, but we’ll take it)Shoutout to Andrea from PodSEO, who keeps emailing Ruha about “bad patterns,” prompting the immortal line:“Are we a bad pattern? Are we the problem?”Ruha surprises Bekah with a Parks and Recreation quote‑guessing game — 50 quotes, counting backwards, more or less.Bekah absolutely crushes the early rounds, nailing April, Andy, Ron, and Leslie with psychic accuracy.Some gems:“When they say 2% milk, I don’t know what the other 98% is.” — Andy“There’s only one thing I hate more than lying. Skim milk…” — Ron Swanson“Guys love it when you can show them you’re better than they are at something they love.” — LeslieWe also get curveballs from Craig (“It’s incurable!”), Donna (“I rolled the window down for him”), and the fever‑dream brilliance of Jean‑Ralphio.The legend of Bekah's dog, Duke, returns with his signature squeaker chaos — except the squeaker was not a toy.“He had ripped it out of another toy… he was just carrying around the squeaker itself.”A proud, chaotic king.It’s Bekah’s birthday! 🎉Her phone battery is melting from all the messages, and Ruha is extremely proud that her gift will arrive before Bekah’s did.“It may be late, but it the contest of Ruha versus Bekah, I still won.”This week’s cozy recs:Project Hail MaryBekah saw it in theaters and LOVED it — so much she’s taking the girls to see it again.https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1200263/Artemis II Mission - Humans return to the moon!Ruha and family attended the astronaut departure from Johnson Space Center.https://www.nasa.gov/artemis-ii/For All Mankind (on AppleTV)Ruha finally started this show she now highly recommends:https://tv.apple.com/us/show/for-all-mankind/umc.cmc.4sr43xlyp5s3t6dzlqf4y5p7x ⏱️ Chapters0:16 — Welcome to the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast1:33 — Apologies for the Delay4:41 — Trending and Statistics4:53 — Updates and Fun Topics6:57 — Secrets from Parks and Rec15:30 — Character Quotes and Guesses18:55 — Exploring Pop Culture References20:39 — Insights on Relationships and Humanity29:25 — Birthday Celebrations and Treats35:15 — Special Limited Edition Donuts
✨ Bekah and Ruha Discuss Netflix's Reality Check: America’s Next Top Model ✨Welcome back to the couch, besties — the kids are occupied (for now), the dog is slurping water and squeaking his loudest toys like it’s his full‑time job, and we are settling in with warm drinks and warmer opinions. Today’s episode is a nostalgic deep dive into the cultural fever dream that was America’s Next Top Model — the marathons, the smizing, the questionable editing, the iconic photo shoots, and the impact it had on a generation of girls who were just trying to survive the cultural transition to skinny jeans.Ruha and Bekah revisit their own ANTM eras: dorm‑room marathons, cafeteria sprints during commercial breaks, and the absolute transcendence of seeing those final photos each episode. But with Netflix’s new docuseries Reality Check stirring up old memories (and new critiques), it’s time to talk about what the show got right, what it definitely didn’t, and how Tyra Banks continues to be one of the most fascinatingly intentional figures in pop culture.We get into body image, editing manipulation (allegedly), the infamous Shandi storyline, Tyra’s executive‑producer accountability (or lack thereof, allegedly), and why the fashion industry of the early 2000s was basically a lawless wasteland. And of course — we still find time to laugh, because this is Midnight Cheesecake and we cope with humor, carbs, and friendship.Settle in. This one’s juicy.Mentioned in Today’s EpisodeDisney & Pixar’s HopperThe brand‑new Pixar adventure Ruha saw with her firstborn for Spring Break - "Like Avatar, but with beavers."https://www.pixar.com/feature-films/hopperEveryday with Babs — Barbara CostelloBekah's new favorite cookbook by the TikTok legend: Internet grandma, comfort‑food queen, and the woman who can teach all of us how to host without crying in the pantry.https://www.amazon.com/Everyday-Babs-Family-Recipes-Generations/dp/074409067XFollow Us, BestiesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakepodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecakChapters0:20 — Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast6:42 — Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model10:48 — Setting the Stage: Our Experiences10:50 — Reality Check: A Closer Look14:08 — The Impact of Body Image15:28 — Reflecting on Reality TV27:17 — Accountability and Choices40:52 — The Controversial Photo Shoots49:03 — Wisdom(?) and Reflection
Spring This or ThatThis week’s episode starts exactly the way all great mornings do: with Bekah flipping through her Everything Restaurant Copycat Recipes cookbook and Ruha reminiscing about Wendy’s baked potatoes like they were a core childhood memory. From Chipotle barbacoa dreams to Oprah’s baked‑potato wisdom, your besties ease into the day with the kind of warm, silly banter that makes you feel like you’re right there at the kitchen table with them.Today's main topic: It's time for a Spring This or That — the seasonal sequel to your beloved Sweata Weatha episode. Ruha and Bekah work their way through tulips vs. daffodils, rainy days vs. sunny days, lemonade vs. iced tea, and the eternal question: april showers or may flowers? Along the way, they rediscover that maybe spring is a little magical… even if it’s still the “bleh” season.And of course, the conversation winds through real life — Ruha’s emotional tug‑of‑war over her kindergartner’s first field trip, Bekah’s refusal to deliver Fluffy Fuffy to school, and the universal mom truth that gratitude matters. There’s roller derby nostalgia, meditation squirrel drama, and the revelation that peaches and mangoes might be the hill this friendship dies on.We wrap things up with laughter, a little catharsis, and the reminder that even on chaotic mornings, sitting down to pod with your bestie is the softest kind of spring breeze.Mentioned in Today’s Episode🍰Everything Restaurant Copycat Recipes Cookbook (Bekah’s morning muse — the source of her Chipotle barbacoa ambitions.)<a href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/The-Everything-Restaurant-Copycat-Recipes-Cookbook-200-Easy-Recipes-to-Re-Create-Your-Favorite-Restaurant-Dishes-at-Home-Paperback-9781507223239/1045595335">The book on Walmart.com </a>Walk on Air by Kate Spade (Bekah’s current fragrance obsession — smells like stepping out of a summer pool with sweet sunscreen still clinging to your skin.)<a href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/Walk-On-Air-Body-Spray-by-Kate-Spade-for-Women-8-4-oz-Body-Spray/333546728">The fragrance on Walmart.com</a>Jeff Arcuri (Comedian) (The crowd‑work king Bekah can’t stop watching — sharp, hilarious, and dangerously bingeable.)<a href="https://www.facebook.com/JeffArcuriComedy">https://www.facebook.com/JeffArcuriComedy</a>F1 (2025) starring Brad Pitt — Apple TV (Ruha’s latest movie night pick — a nostalgic, trope‑filled sports flick complete with slow claps, underdog energy, and a questionable NASCAR‑to‑F1 transition.)<a href="https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/f1-the-movie/umc.cmc.3t6dvnnr87zwd4wmvpdx5came">The movie on Apple TV</a>Drive to Survive (Netflix) (The next stop on Ruha’s Formula One journey — the docuseries that launched a thousand racing obsessions.)<a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/80204890">The show on Netflix</a>Glutinous Rice Balls (Tangyuan) (The traditional Lantern Festival dessert — soft, chewy, and filled with peanut‑sesame goodness that tastes like a warm hug.)<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tangyuan">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tangyuan</a>Find Ruha and Bekah Around These PartsINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakeFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (The “e” wouldn’t fit) EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcastChapters<a>0:16 </a>Kitchen Creations<a>0:30 </a>Copycat Recipes<a>1:44 </a>Podcast Rankings<a>3:49 </a>Spring This or That<a>6:05 </a>Field Trip Dilemma<a>12:00 </a>Balancing Acts<a>22:08 </a>Seasonal Preferences<a>24:35 </a>Nature and Weather<a>26:34 </a>Roller Derby Tales<a>29:47 </a>Meditation Moments<a>32:30 </a>Squirrel Encounters<a>38:07 </a>Community Connections<a>40:20 </a>Cultural Celebrations<a>50:38 </a>Midnight Cheesecake Treats<a>59:01 </a>Closing Thoughts
If I Had One ComplaintThis episode had us laughing from the jump — from early‑morning time‑zone chaos to Bekah sitting fully mic’d and ready an hour early while Duke snoozed like a perfect gentleman (gentledog? Good dog.) Things took a turn when we discovered our very first one‑star review (the audacity!), which sent us spiraling into theories about finger‑slips, secret enemies, and possibly… Joe. From there, the conversation wandered through retail misery, Diet Coke withdrawals, and the universal truth that some people just wake up choosing chaos.Today's main topic: Millennial Complaints — the “OK Boomer” list that Ruha and Bekah (two millenials) have thoughtfully assembled. From QR‑code menus to subscription services with ads, LED headlights, and the never‑ending parade of school apps, we break down the tiny irritations that unite a generation. Expect passionate rants, relatable gripes, and Ruha’s science‑girl breakdown of why LED headlights feel like staring into the sun.Along the way, we connected the story to our own lives — including Bekah's iconic “if I had one complaint” origin story from her unmedicated, lightning‑fast labor, where Joe’s biggest hardship was… his hand hurting. (We’re still laughing at that one.) And yes, we also learned that Bekah checks Instagram approximately twice a year, but Threads? Threads is her natural habitat.We wrapped things up with gratitude for the pleasant people of Oak Ridge, a plea for five‑star reviews to rescue the podcast from its tragic 4.2 rating, and a cozy reminder that complaining with your besties is basically therapy.Mentioned in Today’s Episode🍰 Gold Peak Sweet Tea (Ruha’s comfort beverage of choice — the liquid hug that gets her through retail shifts and Diet Coke withdrawals.)https://www.goldpeaktea.com/A Series of Unfortunate Events (Netflix) (The delightfully gloomy show Bekah referenced — perfect for when you want whimsy, chaos, and Neil Patrick Harris in one place.)https://www.netflix.com/Dove Milk Chocolate (The smooth, melty little square of joy that fixes approximately 87% of life’s problems.)https://www.dovechocolate.com/Find Ruha and Bekah Around These PartsINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakeFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (The “e” wouldn’t fit) EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcastChapters<a>0:38 </a>Welcome to Midnight Tuesday Podcast<a>1:34 </a>First One-Star Review<a>5:05 </a>The Struggles of Retail<a>7:41 </a>Diet Coke Withdrawal<a>10:52 </a>Birth Story<a>15:07 </a>Labor and Delivery Complaints<a>17:09 </a>Millennial Complaints<a>19:07 </a>Subscription Services with Ads<a>22:22 </a>Apps for Everything<a>25:58 </a>Communication Overload in Schools<a>28:38 </a>Annoying Website Features<a>32:24 </a>The Button Dilemma<a>40:21 </a>Loud Music in Restaurants<a>43:56 </a>Midnight Cheesecake Celebrations<a>45:46 </a>Rating and Sharing Requests
Midnight Cheesecake's Mardi Gras Would‑You‑Rather EpisodeThis week, your sleepy long‑distance besties are recording at an hour no human should be awake — Ruha with her retainer still in, Bekah clinging to the last sips of Diet Coke before Lent begins. What starts as a Mardi Gras check‑in quickly spirals into sugar hangovers, Galentine’s crafts, and the eternal struggle of a night owl being besties with a morning person. And then… the Would‑You‑Rather questions begin. And they are unusual.From pet cacti that tell bad jokes to jellybeans that bounce away, from miniature butlers to marching bands at the gym, from glitter clouds to spotlight disasters — your girls tackle each scenario with the seriousness it absolutely does not deserve. There’s also a brief philosophical debate about whether a magic wand would turn your hamper into a cupcake or just make it taste like one. (Netflix, call us.)Along the way, we swap stories from our own lives — a magnet‑craft soirée, the saga of Waldo the parrot (newly crowned Midnight Cheesecake mascot), and the ongoing battle of waking up teenagers before sunrise. We even revisited the iconic Tom Holland “Umbrella” performance because honestly, we don't do that often enough.We wrapped things up with a cozy chat about what we’re loving lately — including Bekah’s new study soundtrack — and a reminder that even at 6 a.m., catching up with your besties feels like coming home.Mentioned in this EpisodeHomemade‑Gifts‑Made‑Easy Would‑You‑Rather List (The chaotic source of every cactus, jellybean, and glitter cloud we debated today — bless this website for its commitment to weirdness.)https://www.homemade-gifts-made-easy.com/would-you-rather-questions.htmlTom Holland’s “Umbrella” Lip Sync Battle (The performance that lives rent‑free in all our hearts — peak athleticism, peak Zendaya, peak Spidey.)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7W4KpQpZJgk Ludovico Einaudi – Piano Music (Bekah’s new study soundtrack — soothing, cinematic, and perfect for cramming medical billing codes at 5 a.m.)https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=ludovico+einaudi The Studio (Ruha's newest comedy binge — Seth Rogen, Star Studded cameos, Catherine O'Hara — what else do you need?)https://tv.apple.com/us/show/the-studio/umc.cmc.4xq4u7xj8q0q7z0g6t0z6xq0uFortune.com Subscription (The new grown‑up reading habit Ruha swears counts as “self‑care” — because nothing says relaxation like supporting journalism and staying informed.)https://fortune.comKjersti Flaa on YouTube (Ruha's favorite bad habit — Hollywood interviews, Legal drama, and the kind of content you put on while folding laundry and pretending you’re Scandinavian.)https://www.youtube.com/@kjerstiflaa Loacker Chocolate (The wafer‑y, chocolate‑y treat that will disappear from the pantry faster than anyone will admit. A true Costco bulk treasure.)https://www.loackerusa.com/products/tortina-mini-original-chocolate-coated-wafer-3-17-oz-bagFerrero Rocher (The golden‑wrapped classic — perfect for Galentine’s, late‑night snacking, or bribing your cohost into recording at 6 a.m.)https://www.ferrerorocher.comFind Us Here:INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (The 'e' wouldn't fit)EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.comChapters<a>0:24 </a>Midnight Cheesecake: Mardi Gras Edition<a>4:17 </a>Fun with Would You Rather<a>6:48 </a>Quirky Pet Choices<a>10:13 </a>Magical Objects and Daily Tasks<a>12:47 </a>Laughing Through Life's Embarrassments<a>17:12 </a>Dancing with Icons<a>19:03 </a>Hairy Decisions<a>23:47 </a>Hypothetical Animal Adventures<a>30:08 </a>Drinking Thoughts<a>35:51 </a>Enjoying Life and New Discoveries
Halftime Shows and Opening CeremoniesThis episode had us laughing from the jump — from Ruha’s rogue alarm to Bekah's “I swear I’m not muted” entrance — before we dove straight into the chaos of Super Bowl weekend, the Winter Olympics, and the almost‑launch of Artemis II. We spent the hour bouncing between pop culture moments, personal stories, and the kind of best‑friend commentary that only happens when you’re recording from your bedroom while your husband distracts the dog. It’s peak Midnight Cheesecake energy: cozy, chaotic, and full of opinions we’ll probably get sued for (allegedly).Today’s main topic: the Winter Olympics opening ceremony — or as Ruha put it, “Why is Mariah Carey even here?” (no hate, but yeah, like why?) We unpacked the paint‑splattered spectacle, the space‑themed staging, and the emotional athlete walk‑ins, all while trying to understand why Iceland only sent 4 athletes to the Winter Olympics?? We also dipped into the Super Bowl halftime show and commercials, Bad Bunny’s big moments, widespread twerking, and the NASA tie‑ins that Ruha swears were everywhere.Along the way, we connected the story to our own lives — including Ruha’s Fantasmic keg‑rolling saga, Bekah's Super Bowl snack spread, and a very passionate sidebar about Backstreet Boys maturity arcs. We also revisited the eternal question: why did we ever think Legolas was the one when Aragorn was right there the whole time?We wrapped things up with reflections on being Back to School as a grownup, busy-mom schedules, and the joy of watching people live out their childhood dreams. As always, catching up with your besties feels like coming home.Mentioned in Today’s EpisodeJoe Hegyes TikTok (@bequietjoe) (The caveman, the pilgrim, the Uggs — Ruha’s favorite historical himbo):https://www.tiktok.com/@bequietjoeBackstreet Boys T‑Mobile Super Bowl Commercial (The pink outfits, the blue tongue, the nostalgia — AJ forever):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v= (T‑Mobile’s 2026 Big Game Ad)https://www.t-mobile.com/news/press/omg-theyre-back-again-big-game-commercialBud Light “Keg” Super Bowl Commercial (The runaway keg that unlocked Ruha’s Fantasmic flashbacks and heroic dads everywhere):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-P6OzmgCyYhttps://adage.com/article/special-report-super-bowl/why-bud-light-made-keg-star-its-super-bowl-campaign/2561236 Winter Olympics Opening Ceremony – Milan Cortina 2026 (The paint ribbons, the music notes, and yes… Mariah Carey):https://www.nbcolympics.com/news/2026-winter-olympics-opening-ceremony-highlights Super Bowl LX Halftime Show – Bad Bunny (The moment he gave little Bad Bunny the Grammy and made us all emotional):https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bad-bunny-super-bowl-halftime-show-2026/ Artemis II Mission Updates (The hydrogen leaks, the March launch windows, and the dream of boots on the moon):https://www.nasa.gov/artemis-ii/ https://www.aerotime.aero/articles/nasa-delays-artemis-ii-launch-march-2026🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These PartsINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecakeFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (The 'e' wouldn't fit)EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcastChapters<a>0:52 </a>Podcast Kickoff<a>2:07 </a>Busy Lives, Busy Podcasts<a>3:05 </a>Braless Life and Socials<a>3:20 </a>Fun Videos and Laughter<a>4:58 </a>Main Segment: Olympic Excitement<a>6:17 </a>Winter Olympics Opening Ceremony<a>8:26 </a>Space Themes and NASA Tie-ins<a>10:19 </a>Celebrity Sightings at the Super Bowl<a>14:44 </a>Super Bowl Highlights and Commercials<a>15:47 </a>Super Bowl Snacks and Parties<a>20:02 </a>Olympic Fashion Trends<a>30:41 </a>The Parade of Athletes<a>36:44 </a>Memories of Previous Olympics<a>39:44 </a>Winter Sports and Olympic Dreams<a>42:04 </a>The Intensity of Professional Athletes<a>43:43 </a>Following the Winter Olympics<a>44:25 </a>Midnight Cheesecake and Treats<a>55:05 </a>Listener Engagement and Favorites<a>55:45 </a>Closing Thoughts and Goodbyes
Put This On My TombstoneSome moments just brand themselves onto your soul — the ones that make you laugh until you wheeze, the ones that feel like a movie montage, the ones that have absolutely nothing to do with weddings, babies, or résumés. Today, Ruha and Bekah are celebrating the other greatest moments of their lives, and the stories are peak Midnight Cheesecake energy. I mean, the aura points in this episode are ka-chinging harder than Ruha's slots machine.Ruha kicks things off with her lifelong streak of improbable luck — the kind that wins raffles, costume contests, and, apparently, a mini‑jackpot on a cruise ship slot machine after betting ten cents. (A fortune which she immediately returned to the sea, like Rose at the end of Titanic.)Then Bekah delivers what might be the most iconic story in podcast history: the day she became a real‑life Supermarket Sweep champion at Aldi. We’re talking a 90‑second grocery dash, a news crew, an air horn, a cart full of nuts, a heroic turkey heist, and a total that absolutely smoked the other contestants. It’s chaotic, triumphant, and deeply on‑brand. Link to that below.From there, we wander into cozy games, recycled‑plastic tableware, very British pottery competitions, birthday marshmallows, PTA expectations, and the eternal question: if you had 90 seconds in any store, where would you go?Grab a slice and settle in — this episode is a warm, chaotic celebration of life’s unexpected wins.Mentioned in this episode:Bekah's Aldi Giveaway See Bekah's greatest moment for yourself. Warning: she's an absolute queen.<a href="https://share.google/QEM1y4CoSuxedr1h3">https://share.google/QEM1y4CoSuxedr1h3</a>The Wild at Heart (Nintendo Switch / Steam) A beautifully illustrated, cozy adventure game where you guide two runaway kids, craft potions, and command adorable Spritelings to save the forest. Bekah’s comfort‑game of choice.https://www.moonlightkids.co/the-wild-at-heart (moonlightkids.co in Bing)Replay Tableware Bright, durable children’s plates, bowls, cups, and utensils made from recycled plastic. Ruha’s longtime favorite for building a rainbow‑coordinated kitchen cabinet for kids (say that five times fast).https://re-play.com/The Great Pottery Throw Down (HBO Max) A wholesome, very British pottery competition show that will make you cry over clay and root for strangers shaping mugs. Ruha’s current creative obsession.https://www.max.com/shows/the-great-pottery-throw-down Wondermade Marshmallows Hand‑crafted, gourmet marshmallows in flavors like bourbon, lavender, and birthday cake — the perfect midnight treat.https://wondermade.com/Chapters:0:11 Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake1:32 Greatest Moments Beyond Family6:52 A Lucky Cruise Experience10:07 Raffles and Surprises10:31 Fun with Grocery Giveaways17:53 Recollections of Cooking Shows24:27 Reflections on Community Service30:39 A Birthday Celebration36:37 Let's Talk about Marshmallows43:13 Exploring Pottery and Creativity48:40 Midnight Treats and DessertsFind Us Around These PartsInstagram: @midnightcheesecakepodTikTok: @midnightcheesecakeFacebook: Midnight Cheesecake PodcastEmail: midnightcheesecakepod@gmail.com
Midnight Cheesecake 2025 Recap EpisodeThis episode felt like opening a big, cozy scrapbook with your best friends — equal parts laughter, nostalgia, and “wait, did we really say that?” energy. We celebrated hitting 1,000 downloads (!!!), revisited the episodes that shaped our little corner of the internet, and admitted that yes, sometimes the universe sends a sign in the form of a listener complaint. Duke contributed his usual background commentary (Can you hear it?), and we leaned fully into our new “embrace the chaos” editing philosophy. It’s warm, it’s messy, it’s us — and it’s exactly why this episode feels like a hug.Today's main topic: our 2025 podcast recap — a look back at favorite episodes, standout moments, and the unexpected ways this show has grown with us. We talked about the episodes that made us feel like real podcasters, the ones that made us snort-laugh, and the ones that reminded us why we started this whole thing in the first place. From heartfelt listener messages to the joy of rediscovering old episodes, this recap is a love letter to the journey so far.Along the way, we connected the story to our own lives — Christina’s “official complaint,” Adeline’s “tuff” review, Duke’s ongoing quest for airtime, and the shared chaos of recording while life happens loudly in the background. We even dipped into our current obsessions, from Yellowjackets to ACOTAR, because of course we did.We wrapped things up with gratitude, bra-burning, giggles, and our midnight cheesecake picks — crunchy folded chips and Nutella-filled wafer magic. As always, we ended on that familiar note: catching up with your besties feels like coming home.Mentioned in Today's Episode🍰Yellowjackets (Paramount+) Bekah's current TV obsession — spooky, twisty, witchy wilderness vibes with a killer cast.https://www.paramountplus.comA Court of Thorns and Roses (Book Series) Ruha's new reading adventure — the fantasy series everyone abbreviates but no one stops talking about.https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/16096824-a-court-of-thorns-and-roses BetterHelp The therapy app that kicked off one of Ruha's most meaningful episodes — Sweata Weatha foreva.<a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_as">https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_as</a> (Ruha's affiliate link)Folds Potato Chips Bekah's midnight cheesecake pick — the folded chips from the bag, but all of them, all the time.https://www.homegoods.com (product availability varies)Nutella B-Ready Ruha's sweet treat of the week — a crispy wafer stuffed with Nutella joy in four perfect bites.https://www.nutella.com Find Ruha and Bekah Around These PartsINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (The 'e' wouldn't fit)EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.comChapters0:24 Welcome to the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast1:15 From Complaints to Joy9:03 Favorite Episodes Recap17:33 Guest Moments and Highlights18:58 Nature and Adventure Episodes26:40 Reflecting on Serious Topics27:59 Lighthearted Conversations Ahead35:53 Fun with TV and Movies40:46 Embracing No-Editing Freedom48:21 Midnight Cheesecake Favorites
Amy Bradley Is MissingRuha and Bekah are finally back in the virtual recording room after a long break, and the reunion energy is strong. Between catching up on life updates — including Ruha’s TikTok glow‑up and Bekah gearing up for her medical billing and coding class — the episode settles into that cozy, familiar Midnight Cheesecake rhythm. The vibe is warm, a little chaotic, and full of the kind of laughter that only happens when besties haven’t talked in way too long.Today’s main topic: the Netflix documentary “Amy, Amy Bradley Is Missing.” The case pulls them straight into the mystery of Amy Bradley’s 1998 disappearance from a cruise ship — a story filled with unsettling details, emotional interviews, and theories that leave you questioning everything. They walk through the timeline, the family’s heartbreak, the eerie Barbados sightings, and the confusing witness accounts that still haunt the case.Along the way, they connect the story to their own lives — from travel anxieties to family dynamics to the universal “why do bad things happen when you’re just trying to relax on vacation” feeling. There may or may not be a moment where they spiral into the existential dread of cruise ship safety… but in a very Midnight Cheesecake way.Ruha does mention her high school friend, the ethereal, appropriately named and very much missing, Tiffany Heaven Daniels, who is never far from her thoughts. If you have any tips, please report them here: https://www.facebook.com/findtiffanyThey wrap things up with reflections on staying vigilant, supporting families of missing persons, and the importance of community awareness. And of course, they end on that signature cozy note — because catching up with your besties always feels like coming home.Mentioned in Today’s Episode🍰Ghirardelli Sea Salt Almond Dark Chocolate Squares (“Bekah's well‑earned treat of the day — the kind of chocolate that makes you close your eyes for a second.”):https://www.ghirardelli.com/dark-chocolate-sea-salt-almond-squares-61308-p‘Amy, Amy Bradley Is Missing’ on Netflix (“The documentary that sent us down a rabbit hole of theories, emotions, and cruise‑ship paranoia.”):https://www.netflix.com/Find Ruha and Bekah Around These PartsINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527 TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak (that dang "e" wouldn't fit)EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.comChapters0:05 — Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast3:59 — Midwest Culture and Animal Videos11:35 — Diving into Amy Bradley43:10 — Lessons from the Amy Bradley Case51:16 — Wrapping Up and Listener Comments
On the second day of Christmas, my long distance besties gave to me... an overdue episode of Midnight Cheesecake! Hey besties, in this episode we wish you a Happy Hanukkah (which has already past), a Merry Christmas (which was yesterday) and a Happy New Year (which we have successfully timed right!) and most importantly, we wish you peace and joy and all those good things. It's been a wonderful year. From the bottoms of our carb-enhanced hearts, thank you for listening. Here's to a bright and humor-forward 2026. Did you share this episode with all your friends yet? If not, did Santa leave coal in your stocking for not knowing how to share? Let us know in the comments! 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com
A Very Jonas Christmas and Other Season's Movies 🎄 We spent this episode wrapped up in twinkle lights and holiday chaos, giggling our way through the Jonas Brothers’ recent festive romp. (Ruha even saw a movie poster for it on her trip to Paris) From cranking up Christmas playlists to debating which brother is the “relatable everyman,” we dove headfirst into the whimsical world of A Very Jonas Christmas Movie. Amongst the celebrity cameos, magical train detours, and a questionable canal jump (ew, but also… cinematic), we couldn’t help but connect the Jonas antics to our own holiday traditions. Today's main topic: Christmas movies generally, but more specifically, A Very Jonas Christmas Movie. We broke down the plot, laughed at the brothers’ self-deprecating humor, and marveled at surprise appearances from Will Ferrell and Jesse Tyler Ferguson. Bekah’s daughter even took notes mid‑movie, proving that this holiday flick deserves at least four out of five stars. Spoiler alert: Kevin may or may not have been forgotten by Santa, but we’re here to remind you he’s still the dad‑energy glue holding it all together. Along the way, we shared personal stories — Ruha’s kids refusing to watch anything non‑animated (except for Home Alone, obviously), Bekah’s daughter moonlighting as a film critic, and our mutual nostalgia (or lack thereof) for Disney‑era Jonas chaos. And yes, we had to Google whether Home Alone: The Musical was ever real (jury’s still out). We wrapped things up with cozy reflections on our own must‑watch Christmas classics, a few snack shout‑outs, and the reminder that catching up with your besties — even while debating nepo babies and luxury candles like “Glow by Joe” — feels just like coming home. Let us know in the comments: Glow by Joe or Wick by Nick? Mentioned in Today's Episode Raubay Collapsible Green Screen (Ruha’s new gadget — because even holiday chaos looks better with chroma key magic): <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08HRSQPJS?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title">[On Amazon - Not an Affiliate Link]</a> Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey (Bekah’s current read — silver fox wisdom and journal entries galore): <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52838315-greenlights">[Book on Goodreads]</a> Potsticker Soup (Bekah’s dinner plans — proof that cozy comfort food beats any holiday chaos): <a href="https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/potsticker-soup-recipe/">[potsticker soup recipe on Gimme Some Oven]</a> A Very Jonas Christmas Movie (The holiday romp that sparked all our laughter, nostalgia, and canal‑jump side‑eye): <a href="https://www.disneyplus.com/browse/entity-0a35b05e-b39a-4d17-8786-263962268cbe">[On Disney Plus]</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com Chapters 0:04 Welcome to the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast 0:11 The Christmas Music Era 1:28 Holiday Movie Adventures 3:28 The Jonas Brothers' Christmas Journey 6:20 Celebrity Cameos Galore 7:20 Nepo Babies in Hollywood 7:51 Jamie Lee Curtis Revelation 9:53 Must-Watch Christmas Classics 29:43 The Home Alone Musical 35:31 Fan Reactions and Reflections 45:38 Wrapping Up the Episode
Gobble Till You Wobble Happy Thanksgiving friends! Are you having the Friendsgivingest celebration ever this season, or is it another big family get together this year? For us, this episode was all about leaning into the festive spirit of Thanksgiving with another silly round of “This or That.” Buckle up because this is all about the holiday food debates that make family dinners so memorable. Let us hear your picks! We're talking Thanksgiving traditions and treats - from pumpkin pie vs. pecan pie to cranberry sauce (canned or homemade?), stuffing styles, and the eternal question of turkey or side dishes. We joked our way through quirky scenarios like parades vs. football, cookie decorating vs. pumpkin carving, and whether you’d rather wear a turkey hat or a football jersey in the family photo. Along the way, we shared personal stories: Bekah's emotional support pumpkin pie, Ruha's southern roots with pecan tart cookies, and the infamous broccoli rice casserole mishaps (yes, one year the rice was missing, another year the broccoli). We also reflected on how Friendsgiving and family traditions both shape the holiday, and how grazing on leftovers is basically the true meaning of Thanksgiving. We wrapped things up with thoughts on gratitude, community, and the joy of mixing traditions - before lightening the mood with snack talk, listener shout‑outs, and a reminder that catching up with your besties (even after a few weeks) feels like coming home. Mentioned in Today's Episode Marie Callender Pumpkin Pie (Bekah's “emotional support pie” that lives in her freezer): <a href="https://www.mariecallendersmeals.com/pies/pumpkin-pie">https://www.mariecallendersmeals.com/pies/pumpkin-pie</a> Pepperidge Farm Stuffing Mix (Bekah's dad’s doctored‑up sage stuffing classic): <a href="https://www.pepperidgefarm.com/product/herb-seasoned-stuffing">https://www.pepperidgefarm.com/product/herb-seasoned-stuffing</a> Cracker Barrel Heat n’ Serve Thanksgiving Dinner (for those years when cooking just isn’t happening): <a href="https://www.crackerbarrel.com/thanksgiving">https://www.crackerbarrel.com/thanksgiving</a> Alton Brown’s Good Eats Turkey Brine (because science makes the bird better): <a href="https://www.thekitchn.com/alton-brown-turkey-review-263072">https://www.thekitchn.com/alton-brown-turkey-review-263072</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters 0:06 Welcome & Thanksgiving Kickoff 1:17 Pumpkin Pie vs. Pecan Pie (and other food debates) 5:53 Cranberry Sauce, Stuffing, and Family Traditions 10:42 Green Bean Casserole & Veggie Sides 12:52 Turkey vs. Side Dishes 14:19 Thanksgiving Traditions & Holiday Timing 15:35 Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and Holiday Shopping 18:03 Friendsgiving vs. Family Thanksgiving 24:12 Would You Rather: Turkey, Guests, and Gratitude 34:38 Final Thoughts, Snacks, and Listener Shout‑Outs
When Neighbors Aren’t So Perfect This episode took us from our usual laughs into something heavier: the Netflix documentary The Perfect Neighbor. After yapping a bit about balancing work, messenger traditions, and even cat mascots (because of course we did), we dove into the chaos of neighborhood disputes gone tragically wrong. Today's main topic: Netflix Documentary "The Perfect Neighbor", complete with raw body cam and courtroom footage, which showed how Susan Lawrence’s hostility toward kids playing nearby escalated into a fatal confrontation with a mom. Watching her call the cops over and over, obsess about “private property,” and ultimately shoot her gun through a closed door left us stunned. We reflected on how fear, anger, and self‑defense laws collided in this case, and how the jury weighed her actions before (SPOILER ALERT) sentencing her to 25 years for manslaughter. Along the way, we connected the story to our own lives - Ruha shared a wild encounter at a Florida convention with someone who felt eerily similar to Susan (ok but was it Susan? Let us know your thoughts), and Bekah remembered her own “Susan moments” with difficult customers. These stories reminded us how some people just thrive on conflict, and how important it is to set boundaries and protect your peace. We wrapped things up with thoughts on conflict resolution, community, and how to avoid toxic dynamics, before lightening the mood with a sweet note, macarons, and listener shout‑outs. Because even after heavy conversations, catching up with your besties still feels like coming home. Mentioned in Today's Episode Crunch Labs Hack Pack (Ruha’s collab project — she’s building while the kids are at school) (Ruha's affiliate link): <a href="https://link.creatorcommerce.club/ir-2200009-1">https://link.creatorcommerce.club/ir-2200009-1</a> Pepperidge Farm Milano Mint Chocolate Cookies (Bekah’s seasonal obsession — mint chocolate = instant holiday cheer): <a href="https://www.pepperidgefarm.com/product/milano-mint">https://www.pepperidgefarm.com/product/milano-mint</a> Osmo 3 Creator Camera (Ruha’s new “big girl” content creator toy — stay tuned for her first project): <a href="https://www.dji.com/osmo-pocket-3">https://www.dji.com/osmo-pocket-3</a> The Perfect Neighbor on Netflix (the documentary that sparked all the reflection and debate): <a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/81709928">https://www.netflix.com/title/81709928</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters 0:06 Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake 1:58 Balancing Work and Life 5:59 Messenger Traditions 8:22 Cat Mascots and College Spirit 10:58 Netflix Documentary Discussion 24:45 The Perfect Neighbor Review 35:33 Final Thoughts and Takeaways 42:20 Exciting New Projects Ahead
Everyone's Favorite TV Besties We spent this episode laughing, reminiscing, and diving into the magic of friendships (mostly female ones) on TV. It all started with a bunch of funny videos we’d been saving for each other - because let’s be honest, nothing kicks off a good catch-up like cracking up together. From there, we got into the heart of what makes friendships so good, both on screen and in real life. We kicked it off with Rebecca and Keeley from Ted Lasso and how their bond surprises us in all the best ways. They’re so different, but they lift each other up, and that reminds us of our own friendship - how we cheer each other on with over-the-top compliments and inside jokes. Then we brought up Leslie and Ann from Parks and Rec, and how their friendship actually inspired us to be more intentional about ours. We even made it official, like a friendship proposal, bc we're extra. We pulled in other iconic duos like Penny and Amy from The Big Bang Theory, Jen and Judy from Dead to Me, and Alexis and David from Schitt’s Creek (yes, we know they’re siblings, but their dynamic is gold). Each pair showed us that friendships come in all shapes - sometimes opposites attract, sometimes it’s two peas in a pod, and sometimes it’s just about showing up for each other. We also shared some personal stories, like how we first bonded over Parks and Rec, how we gift each other little reminders of our favorite characters, and how we’ve cultivated relationships in our lives into those hilarious, supportive friendship that keeps evolving. Toward the end, we talked about how hard it can be to make friends as adults, but how worth it it is when you find someone who just gets you. We wrapped things up with snack talk (of course), a few more laughs, and a reminder to reach out to your long-distance besties. Because catching up - even after a few weeks - feels like coming home. Mentioned in Today's Episode BarkBox Super Chewer subscription (Bekah got this for her new fur pal, Duke Kaboom) (not an affiliate link): <a href="https://www.barkbox.com/super-chewer">https://www.barkbox.com/super-chewer</a> Nuts.com gourmet snacks (Ruha loves their sesame teriyaki almond cashew mix, chipotle pistachios, etc.) (Ruha's referral link): <a href="https://share.nuts.com/Ruha">https://share.nuts.com/Ruha</a> 📺 TV Friendships We Celebrated Ted Lasso on Apple TV+: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/ted-lasso Parks and Recreation on Peacock: https://www.peacocktv.com/stream-tv/parks-and-recreation Schitt’s Creek on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/80036165 The Big Bang Theory on Max: https://www.max.com/shows/the-big-bang-theory 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters 1:17 Laughter and Videos 4:56 Instagram Broadcasting 6:03 Besties on Screen 8:13 Friendship Goals 14:19 Iconic TV Duos 26:12 Sibling Relationships 30:48 Classic TV Besties 37:13 Spot's Playground 48:04 Catching Up
Spooky Feels, Midnight Meals In this episode we finally catch up after a busy month apart, and wow, we missed each other more than we realized. And we've missed you too! Life’s been chaotic, and we talked about how hard it can be to make time for friends when everything’s moving a mile a minute. Bekah shared what’s been going on - she started a new retail job (the bacon bits are flowing, if not the bacon itself), and she went through a rollercoaster of emotions with dog adoption. First came Odie, who sadly didn’t mesh well with the family, and then came Duke Kaboom, a goofy, slobbery Rottweiler mix who’s quickly become part of the crew. A recent rewatching of the Toy Story series in Ruha's household brought back up the discussion of childhood toys and movies - which led to a debate over which one hit us hardest emotionally. Pixar really knows how to hire emotional sadists, right? Then we dove into Halloween traditions and favorite seasonal video games. Ruha's family has a whole lineup: Plants vs. Zombies, Costume Quest, and if we can manage it, Luigi’s Mansion. Bekah's more into spooky puzzle games like Little Nightmares and Inside, which are creepy but clever. We also talked about Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and how it reminded us that family matters more than money. That led to a whole tangent about haunted hotels, advent calendars, and how Facebook knows exactly what kind of weird sweatshirts we want. (Sweet potato & Kinda rude potato? Yes please!) Halloween got discussed for its impact on broader society - how it brings people together, even if some folks are pulling back from it. We agreed that it’s one of those holidays that lets kids be kids and neighbors be neighborly. Plus, it’s fun to see all the costumes and lights, especially when Diwali overlaps and the whole neighborhood feels festive. To wrap things up, we shared what we’ve been loving lately. Ruha's newly into Sabrina Carpenter’s music, and Bekah's obsessed with jumbo satin scrunchies from work. For snacks, it was salt and vinegar chips vs. rye flour brownies—very on brand for both of us. All in all, it was one of those chats that reminded us why we do this podcast: to laugh, share, and find joy in the little things - even when life’s a bit messy. Show Links 🎮 Seasonal Video Games & DLCs Costume Quest: <a href="https://www.doublefine.com/games/costume-quest">https://www.doublefine.com/games/costume-quest</a> Costume Quest 2: <a href="https://store.steampowered.com/app/275180/Costume_Quest_2">https://store.steampowered.com/app/275180/Costume_Quest_2</a> Plants vs. Zombies: <a href="https://www.ea.com/games/plants-vs-zombies">https://www.ea.com/games/plants-vs-zombies</a> Little Nightmares series: <a href="https://www.bandainamcoent.com/games/little-nightmares">https://www.bandainamcoent.com/games/little-nightmares</a> Inside (by Playdead): <a href="https://playdead.com/games/inside">https://playdead.com/games/inside</a> Luigi’s Mansion 3: <a href="https://www.nintendo.com/store/products/luigis-mansion-3-switch">https://www.nintendo.com/store/products/luigis-mansion-3-switch</a> Other Mentions Sunday State Hair Accessories, Bekah's jumbo silk scrunchies: <a href="https://sundaystate.com">https://sundaystate.com</a> Bekah's annual advent calendar, LINDT Chocolate Advent Calendars: <a href="https://www.lindtusa.com/chocolate-advent-calendars">https://www.lindtusa.com/chocolate-advent-calendars</a> Lay's Salt & Vinegar Potato Chips, Bekah's current snack of choice: <a href="https://www.lays.com/products/lays-salt-vinegar-flavored-potato-chips">https://www.lays.com/products/lays-salt-vinegar-flavored-potato-chips</a> The King Arthur Baking rye flour Ruha mentioned, does amazing things for brownies as a 25% substitution for the regular flour (Amazon, not an affiliate link): <a href="https://www.amazon.com/King-Arthur-Flour-Flavorful-Verified/dp/B08HZJJ61J">https://www.amazon.com/King-Arthur-Flour-Flavorful-Verified/dp/B08HZJJ61J</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters <a>0:12 </a> Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast <a>4:52 </a> Becca's New Dog <a>16:13 </a> Lessons from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory <a>17:16 </a> Seasonal Video Games <a>36:17 </a> Halloween and Community <a>42:36 Spot's Playground</a> <a>44:47 </a> Midnight Cheesecake
The Great British Baking Podcast 🧁 Ready for the only kind of meditation we practice? Because this episode feels like one big exhale. Ruha and Bekah catch up after a hectic week, swapping stories about everything from car dealership drama to Bekah’s emotional surprise - finally getting a new dog (yes, there were tears). It was one of those chats where we didn’t even realize how much we needed it until we were in the middle of it. This episode is [supposed to be] all about the Great British Baking Show: how it’s our go-to comfort watch, and why it’s so different from all the loud, super competitive reality shows out there. We laughed about the little scandals (custard gate forever), shared favorite bakes, and even dreamed up our own versions - like the Great Southern Baking Show. Imagine brisket, hush puppies, and slow cookers galore. Netflix, Ruha is standing by for the producer call. Toward the end, we shared what’s been bringing us joy lately. Ruha’s deep into a Ted Lasso rewatch, and Bekah can’t stop snacking on chocolate-covered graham crackers from Joe’s Candies. YUM. We wrapped things up with a reminder that sometimes the best kind of living is a sweet treat, a cozy show, and a good laugh with someone who gets you. Have a great week besties! Links for Today's Show: James's Go-To for Baking Recipes: <a href="http://www.thegreatbritishbakeoff.co.uk">www.thegreatbritishbakeoff.co.uk</a> If you haven't checked out Noel Fielding’s art, you should!: <a href="http://www.noelfielding.co.uk">www.noelfielding.co.uk</a> Bekah's snack this fall - Joe’s Candies: <a href="http://www.joescandies.com">www.joescandies.com</a> Ruha's favorite substitute - Favorite Day snacks at Target (milk chocolate grahams): <a href="http://www.target.com/b/favorite-day/-/N-5xt1a">www.target.com/b/favorite-day/-/N-5xt1a</a> 🐾 Adopt your next furry family friend - Pet Adoption & Dog ResourcesPetfinder (find adoptable dogs): <a href="http://www.petfinder.com">www.petfinder.com</a> ASPCA adoption info: <a href="http://www.aspca.org/adopt-pet">www.aspca.org/adopt-pet</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters <a>0:16 </a> Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast <a>3:36 </a> Podcasting After a Long Break <a>5:08 </a> Great British Baking Show Discussion <a>13:22 </a> Car Buying Experience <a>25:48 </a> Getting a New Dog <a>43:32 </a> The Great American Baking Show <a>44:27 </a> Comfort Shows and Final Thoughts <a>50:20 </a> Closing Remarks and Goodnight
🎙️ Midnight Cheesecake: A Hug From Taylor Swift This episode was such a ride. To kick things off, Ruha shared a hilarious tale about trying to order pizza from Whole Foods while stuck in a parking garage that felt like a never-ending maze. She kept making right turns, getting put on hold, and wondering if she’d ever escape. In some universe, she's still there, and she needs help. It was like the movie Groundhog Day, but with pizza. Then we brought on our guest, Michael Wekall, who back in college, started a goofy little campaign called "A Hug from Taylor Swift." And it actually worked. Like, Taylor Swift showed up at Auburn University and hugged them. What started as a fun idea turned into a full-blown viral moment, complete with over-the-top videos, local news stations, and eventually, video challenges from Taylor herself - like helping an old lady cross the street, and gathering 400 college students for a sing-along. Michael walked us through how A Hug from Taylor Swift all unfolded, from doing hug practice videos to getting a surprise call from someone on Taylor’s team. The moment she walked into the room? Total chaos - but wait till you hear the pure magic that happened after the day that got all the headlines. We talked about how that experience shaped Michael’s career in video production and storytelling. He’s now running his own creative agency and still keeps in touch with the team of music industry professionals who helped make the hug happen. It wasn’t just about meeting a celebrity—it was about community, creativity, and putting yourself out there. To wrap things up, we shared what we’re into lately - books, shows, perfumes, and of course, our midnight cheesecake picks. Michael’s was a classic ice cream sandwich at the beach (solid choice), and we may or may not have plotted future hug campaigns for Pedro Pascal and Tom Hiddleston. In this episode: 🎤 Taylor Swift & The Hug Campaign The Final Challenge campaign recap on youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7p_BCIX-rw">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7p_BCIX-rw</a> Local news coverage about the event at Auburn University: <a href="https://www.wsfa.com/story/12378387/taylor-swift-stops-at-auburn-university-for-a-hug/">https://www.wsfa.com/story/12378387/taylor-swift-stops-at-auburn-university-for-a-hug/</a> The campaign's twitter page: <a href="https://x.com/ahugfromtaylor">https://x.com/ahugfromtaylor</a> 📚 Books Mentioned And Then There Were None – Michael’s gateway into Agatha Christie’s world. He called it “phenomenal” and said it’s often considered her best. (Ruha agrees!) The Murder of Roger Ackroyd – His next pick, known for its legendary twist and a favorite among mystery fans. 📺 TV Shows Mentioned Ted Lasso – Ruha’s rewatch pick when she needed something uplifting, soulful, and funny. It’s her go-to comfort show. New Girl – Michael and his wife were rewatching this one. He called it “so, so, so good” and said it’s one of their favorites for lighthearted laughs. The Americans – Michael’s gritty rewatch. He described it as “phenomenal” and “probably the most underrated show of the last 20 years.” It’s about two Russian spies living undercover in 1980s America. 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters Chapters <a>0:00 </a> Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake <a>0:12 </a> The Parking Deck Pizza Purgatory <a>2:15 </a> Introducing Michael Wekall <a>3:21 </a> The Auburn Hug Campaign <a>5:56 </a> Behind the Scenes of the Hug <a>8:10 </a> The Taylor Swift Surprise <a>12:28 </a> Challenges and Community Engagement <a>15:24 </a> The Big Day Arrives <a>23:46 </a> The Aftermath of the Hug <a>28:34 </a> Global Impact of a Small Idea <a>31:52 </a> Life After the Hug <a>32:34 </a> Closing Thoughts and Final Questions <a>35:53 </a> Leisure and Favorite Shows <a>39:51 </a> Farewell and Final Thoughts <a>42:38 </a> Bears in Florida?
🎙️ Worthy Work – Midnight Cheesecake Style In this episode, Ruha and Bekah take us on a ride through the kinds of work (paid and volunteer) that really matter. Not the flashy stuff, but the kind that lifts people up, brings joy, and for better or worse, gives you all the reality of human connection. We kick things off with friendship bracelets, TikTok chaos (yes, there’s a viral video involving food poisoning and a canceled flight), and stories that make us laugh so hard we snort. Then we shift gears and get into the heart of it. Ruha talks about volunteering at senior centers and organizing music events that light up the room. Bekah shares stories from her caregiving jobs - working with folks in assisted living, kids, and people with disabilities. There’s a whole lot of love in the way she tells it. We don’t just talk about big, life-changing jobs. We zoom in on the little things too - like showing empathy at the grocery store or letting someone else take the close parking spot because maybe they’ve had a rough day. It’s about noticing, caring, and choosing kindness even when it’s hard. There’s plenty of absurdity along the way - spider webs, shopping trips, and family quirks that make us feel like we’re all part of the same messy mocumentary sitcom. Through it all, we keep asking: how can we bring a little more light into the world? We wrap things up with a sweet reminder: whether we’re changing diapers, singing carols, or just making someone smile, our work matters. And when we share those moments with each other (you included!) it feels like we’re building something good together. Doesn't it? So grab a treat (Cheesecake optional), and keep the conversation going. Message us to let us know what you think! Links List: 🎧 The Canceled Flight Tiktok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@meghanreinertsen/video/7524181190245469471">https://www.tiktok.com/@meghanreinertsen/video/7524181190245469471</a> 🚗 Bekah's Car Shopping Adventures (Which one will she pick?) Nissan Kicks: <a href="https://www.nissanusa.com/vehicles/crossovers-suvs/kicks.html">https://www.nissanusa.com/vehicles/crossovers-suvs/kicks.html</a> Nissan Rogue: <a href="https://www.nissanusa.com/vehicles/crossovers-suvs/rogue.html">https://www.nissanusa.com/vehicles/crossovers-suvs/rogue.html</a> 📚 Kindness & Empathy Reads "Radical Kindness: The Life-Changing Power of Giving and Receiving" by Angela Santomero (Bekah's current read) <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43245554-radical-kindness">https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43245554-radical-kindness</a> “The Book of Simple Human Kindness” by Brian Doyle (a vibe match for Bekah’s current read): <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23508961-the-book-of-simple-human-kindness">https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23508961-the-book-of-simple-human-kindness</a> 🎶 Volunteer & Community Joy VolunteerMatch (for finding local opportunities like singing at senior centers): <a href="https://www.volunteermatch.org/">https://www.volunteermatch.org/</a> 🧠 Therapy & Mental Health Ruha's BetterHelp online therapy referral code (2 free weeks): <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_dd">https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_dd</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Chapters 0:05 Welcome to the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast 1:19 From Friendship Bracelets to Viral Stories 5:01 Uplifting Work in the World 5:34 Shopping Trips and Spider Webs 13:04 Reflections on Important Jobs 22:32 Volunteering and Its Impact 28:49 Finding Joy in Small Acts 32:07 Empathy in Everyday Life 37:40 Midnight Cheesecake Treats 40:30 Connection through Community Work
🍂 “Sweata Weatha” In this riotously funny episode of the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast, Ruha and Bekah dive headfirst (or is it feet first? Bekah's got it: butt first) into fall—sweaters, soups, Halloween, and all the cozy chaos that comes with it. We kick things off with some weather drama (spoiler: it’s not sweater weather for either of us), and then roll into a “fall this or that” game that gets us choosing between scarecrows and ghost stories, chili cook-offs and pie bakes, and even acorns vs. pinecones. We're vibing all things cozy. Ruha opens up about starting therapy through <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_dd">BetterHelp</a>, and we talk through what it’s like to finally take that step (she has an upcoming family wedding and this seemed like good prep work). It’s honest and super relatable—especially when Bekah jumps in with her own experiences, and we feel seen and reminded that we’re not alone in the mess. We swap stories about Halloween traditions—Ruha’s trick-or-treating memories in a red flyer wagon, Bekah’s legendary graveyard cake and soup swap parties—and we laugh about decorating too early, turning the AC down just to pretend it’s chilly, and how our moms are already putting up Christmas stuff. It’s chaos, but it’s our kind of chaos. By the end, we’re all in the fall feels. We’re talking about how even a bowl of soup from a friend can carry a memory, how decorating with the kids becomes a whole event, and how we’re leaning into the joy of being proudly basic. Starbies, Targis, Chickie Sando—don’t judge us, join us. Ruha and Bekah wrap things up with their “Spots Playground” picks (hello, avocado watch and high-speed hair dryer), and we all get a little nostalgic about gummy bears and Reese’s pumpkins. It’s warm, it’s weird, and it’s exactly what we needed. Show Links: 🧠 Therapy & Mental HealthRuha's BetterHelp online therapy referral code (you get 2 free weeks): <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_dd">https://www.betterhelp.com/rpc/5aa5a92998b51811-5-01?utm_term=ref_v2_dd</a> ⌚ Bekah's new Avocado WatchSpeidel watches (including the Avocado and Mimosa colors): <a href="https://www.speidel.com/">https://www.speidel.com/</a> 💨 Ruha's new High-Speed Hair DryerTideway Silk Jet Titanium Hair Dryer (TikTok trending): <a href="https://www.tidewaytech.com/">https://www.tidewaytech.com/</a> 🍬 Midnight Cheesecake Treats from this episodeAlbanese World’s Best Gummi Bears: <a href="https://www.albanesecandy.com/">https://www.albanesecandy.com/</a> Reese’s Peanut Butter Pumpkins (seasonal candy): <a href="https://www.hersheyland.com/products/reeses-milk-chocolate-peanut-butter-snack-size-pumpkins-9-6-oz-bag.html">https://www.hersheyland.com/products/reeses-milk-chocolate-peanut-butter-snack-size-pumpkins-9-6-oz-bag.html</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> 0:08 Welcome to Midnight Cheesecake Podcast 0:10 Sweater Weather Chit-Chat 1:43 Fall This or That Game 9:20 Self-Care and Therapy 17:19 Fall Traditions & Memories 21:51 Halloween Plans and Parties 36:05 Adult Traditions and Fun 42:27 Spotlight on Fall Favorites 48:27 Midnight Cheesecake Treats
🎙️ Midnight Cheesecake’s “Taylor Swift & Friends” In this episode, Ruha and Bekah are joined by our dear friend Devyn to talk about the one and only Taylor Swift. We're taking a break from true crime documentaries for a conversation that's like a glittery friendship bracelet of joy, nostalgia, and pop culture love. We dive into Taylor’s evolution, her relatability, and why she’s basically everyone’s bestie - even if you didn’t know you were a Swiftie. We kick things off by introducing Devyn, who’s not just a longtime listener but also the first friend Bekah made in Tennessee (cribbage was involved). Then we jump into all things Taylor - from Eras Tour movie watch parties to friendship bracelet crafting and the emotional rollercoaster of her discography. Taylor Swift is more than a pop star. She’s a mainstay cultural anchor, a poetic force, and a reminder that art, friendship, and a good cry in the car are what make life beautiful. We talk about her engagement to Travis Kelce, her philanthropic efforts, and why her wedding will probably break the internet. We also share our top five Taylor songs (“Marjorie” will wreck you), reminisce about the A-hug-from-Taylor-Swift campaign at Auburn University, and reflect on how her lyrics have helped us process grief, joy, and everything in between. Whether you’re a diehard Swiftie or just discovering her magic, this episode is for you. 🎬 Taylor Swift’s Store: <a href="https://store.taylorswift.com/">https://store.taylorswift.com/</a> The Hug From Taylor Swift Campaign (Auburn): <a href="https://www.facebook.com/hugfromtaylorswift">https://www.facebook.com/hugfromtaylorswift</a> and this article: <a href="https://www.wsfa.com/story/12378387/taylor-swift-stops-at-auburn-university-for-a-hug/">https://www.wsfa.com/story/12378387/taylor-swift-stops-at-auburn-university-for-a-hug/</a> 📚 Spot’s Playground Picks The Stars Are Dying by Chloe C. Peñaranda: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62957189-the-stars-are-dying">https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62957189-the-stars-are-dying</a> Hollow Knight: Silksong (Team Cherry): <a href="https://www.hollowknightsilksong.com">https://www.hollowknightsilksong.com</a> Dracula by Bram Stoker (free online edition): <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/345">https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/345</a> 🍰 Cozy Comforts & Feel-Good TV Nightingale Chocolate Ice Cream Sandwiches: <a href="https://www.nightingaleicecream.com">https://www.nightingaleicecream.com</a> Costco Chocolate Birthday Cake (yes, it’s iconic) Sticky Toffee Pudding Recipe Ruha's husband uses: <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/marys_sticky_toffee_41970">https://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/marys_sticky_toffee_41970</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake</a> FACEBOOK: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527</a> TIKTOK: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US: <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> <a>0:06 </a> Introduction to Devin <a>2:59 </a> Taylor Swift Phenomenon <a>4:53 </a> Concert Experiences <a>6:49 </a> Album Releases and Swag <a>14:09 </a> Taylor's Influence and Evolution <a>24:22 </a> Philanthropy and Relatability <a>28:30 </a> Fun with Taylor Swift <a>33:07 </a> Favorite Taylor Swift Songs <a>38:39 </a> Predictions for Taylor's Wedding <a>39:29 </a> Spot's Playground <a>45:05 </a> Midnight Snacks <a>47:00 </a> Closing Remarks
🎙️ Midnight Cheesecake's “Unknown Number: The High School Catfish” Watch Party In this episode, we dive into the WILD RIDE that is the Netflix documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, and wow—this one really shook us. It’s about a pair of small town teenagers who were cyber bulied for over a year and a half - and if you don't know who did it, stop listening and go watch it first. We (Ruha and Bekah) walk through the whole jaw-dropping story, and just try to wrap our heads around how something like this could even happen. We kick things off by celebrating how many folks are tuning in lately (thank you, listeners!), and then we jump straight into the documentary. Spoiler alert: if you haven’t watched it yet, maybe hit pause and come back later. Or not, because this conversation is just as juicy. So here’s the deal—this high school couple in a small Michigan town starts getting creepy texts. At first, it’s just weird stuff like “your boyfriend’s gonna leave you,” but it quickly turns into full-on threats and disturbing messages aimed at Lauren, the girl in the relationship. And the twist? The person behind it all is Lauren’s own mom, Kendra. We know. It’s bananas. Was Kendra looking for attention? Did she want to play the hero by comforting her daughter after causing the pain herself? It’s like a twisted version of Munchausen by proxy, but online. We talk about how Kendra used her daughter’s deepest insecurities against her, and how messed up that is coming from someone who’s supposed to protect you. We also get into how the town reacted, how the school and parents tried to figure out what was going on, and how social media and small-town gossip made everything even messier. Lauren’s friends and family were worried sick, and the texts were so disturbing that even the detective said they made him blush. One of the hardest parts to watch? Lauren still wanted her mom back. Even after everything, she said she loved her more than anyone. That part really hurts. It’s heartbreaking and shows how complicated family bonds can be, especially when trust is broken. We talk about the fallout, the finger-pointing, and how other kids got dragged into the drama unfairly. Khloe, the so-called “mean girl,” and her family got blamed at one point, and while they didn’t come off great in interviews, we get why they were upset. If someone accused our kid of something like this, we’d be furious too. As we wrap up, we reflect on how important it is for parents to be kind and supportive—not just in public, but behind closed doors too. We hope this story reminds everyone to check in with their kids, keep communication open, and be the safe space they need. We end the episode with gratitude for all the listeners and tease more juicy convos ahead. And of course, there’s some cozy recommendations and midnight snacks to round things out. 🎬 More on Unknown Number: High School Catfish Watch the doc on Netflix: <a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/81671971">https://www.netflix.com/title/81671971</a> Variety’s coverage we discussed of the documentary and behind-the-scenes insights: <a href="https://variety.com/2024/tv/news/unknown-number-netflix-documentary-kendra-licari-1235897654/">https://variety.com/2024/tv/news/unknown-number-netflix-documentary-kendra-licari-1235897654/</a> One of many illuminating Reddit threads discussing theories and reactions to the documentary: <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrime/comments/1b2xkqf/unknown_number_netflix_discussion_thread/">https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrime/comments/1b2xkqf/unknown_number_netflix_discussion_thread/</a> 📚 Spots Playground Picks Radical Kindness by Angela Santomero (author page & book info): <a href="https://www.angelasclues.com/radical-kindness-book/">https://www.angelasclues.com/radical-kindness-book/</a> The Great British Baking Show on Netflix: <a href="https://www.netflix.com/title/80063224">https://www.netflix.com/title/80063224</a> 🍰 Cozy Comforts & Feel-Good TV Chobani Sweet Cream Creamer (because Ruha swears by it): <a href="https://www.chobani.com/products/coffee-creamer/sweet-cream/">https://www.chobani.com/products/coffee-creamer/sweet-cream/</a> Dunkin’ Donuts Mint Bark Iced Coffee (Bekah’s midnight treat): <a href="https://www.dunkindonuts.com/en/drinks/iced-coffee">https://www.dunkindonuts.com/en/drinks/iced-coffee</a> 🍰 Find Ruha and Bekah Around These Parts INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake/">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake/</a> FACEBOOK <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527/">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527/</a> TIKTOK at <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (The 'e' wouldn't fit) EMAIL US at <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Enjoying the show? Send your favorite episode to a friend! Chapters <a>0:06 </a> Welcome in. <a>2:08 </a> Juicy Netflix Documentary Discussion. <a>5:27 </a> Shocking Revelations Uncovered. <a>8:12 </a> Exploring Psychological Aspects. <a>11:52 </a> The Fallout and Accusations. <a>15:41 </a> Delving into the Catfish Identity. <a>21:56 </a> Investigation and Discovery Process. <a>25:51 </a> Future Implications for Lauren. <a>27:51 </a> Recommendations and Reflections. <a>33:24 </a> Kindness and Personal Growth.
🎙️ Fit for TV (Or a Podcast) – Friendly Summary In this episode of the Midnight Cheesecake Podcast, we dive into the Netflix docuseries Fit for TV, which takes a hard look at The Biggest Loser and how it shaped the way we think about weight loss, health, and reality TV. Ruha and Bekah (we're your long distance besties) walk through the highs and lows of the show’s 17-season run, starting with a nostalgic look back at the early 2000s—when low-rise jeans and fad diets were all the rage. We talk about how the show pushed extreme transformations and how that affected the contestants long after the cameras stopped rolling. Ruha and Bekah share stories from the docuseries that show just how intense and sometimes harmful the training and competition could be. There’s a lot of disbelief over how little mental health support was offered, especially when people were being pushed to their limits. We also get into the different vibes between trainers Bob Harper and Jillian Michaels. Ruha points out how their approaches say a lot about the bigger issues in reality TV—like how far is too far when it comes to "motivating" people? Bekah brings up some jaw-dropping quotes from the show that really make us question the ethics behind it all. The docuseries throws out some pretty shocking stats about obesity in America, and we’re left wondering whether the show was ever really about helping people or just making good TV. We reflect on how reality shows like this shape what we think is “normal” or “healthy,” and whether those ideas are actually helping anyone. By the end, we’re all thinking about how powerful media can be when it comes to our personal health stories. We share their own reactions to watching Fit for TV and The Biggest Loser, mixing awe with concern. It's why we try to think twice about the shows we binge and the messages they send. In the end, wanting to improve ourselves is totally human—but the way we go about it, and the stories we’re told, really matter. If you enjoy today's show, consider leaving a review! 🎥 Shows & Docuseries we mentioned in today's episode: Netflix’s Fit for TV: <a href="http://www.netflix.com/title/81678162">www.netflix.com/title/81678162</a> The Biggest Loser (official site archive): <a href="http://www.nbc.com/the-biggest-loser">www.nbc.com/the-biggest-loser</a> Detroiters (Comedy Central info): <a href="http://www.cc.com/shows/detroiters">www.cc.com/shows/detroiters</a> Veep on HBO: <a href="http://www.hbo.com/veep">www.hbo.com/veep</a> Hocus Pocus 2 (Disney+): <a href="http://www.disneyplus.com/movies/hocus-pocus-2/6p4nZ4lqLwZX">www.disneyplus.com/movies/hocus-pocus-2/6p4nZ4lqLwZX</a> 🥗 Food we love enough to talk about: Taylor Farms Salad Kits: <a href="http://www.taylorfarms.com/products/salad-kits">www.taylorfarms.com/products/salad-kits</a> Trader Joe’s Plantain Chips: <a href="http://www.traderjoes.com/home/products/detail?id=10374">www.traderjoes.com/home/products/detail?id=10374</a> 📚 Books & Podcasts you might enjoy too: The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood: <a href="http://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/28641/the-handmaids-tale-by-margaret-atwood">www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/28641/the-handmaids-tale-by-margaret-atwood</a> Julia Louis-Dreyfus’s podcast Wiser Than Me: <a href="http://www.lemonadamedia.com/show/wiser-than-me">www.lemonadamedia.com/show/wiser-than-me</a> Find Ruha & Bekah on INSTAGRAM: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake/">https://www.instagram.com/midnightcheesecake/</a> and FACEBOOK <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527/">https://www.facebook.com/people/Midnight-Cheesecake-Podcast/61577976430527/</a> also on TIKTOK at <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak">https://www.tiktok.com/@midnightcheesecak</a> (there's no e, it wouldn't fit) EMAIL US at <a href="mailto:midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com">midnightcheesecakepodcast@gmail.com</a> Enjoying the show? Send your favorite episode to a friend! Chapters <a>0:27 </a>Armchair quarterbacks. <a>1:16 </a>Hot Potato Documentary. <a>3:22 </a>Cultural Shifts and Body Image. <a>5:11 </a>Behind the Scenes Insights. <a>6:39 </a>Contestants' Experiences Revealed. <a>12:07 </a>Medical Research Findings. <a>16:18 </a>Controversial Comments and Reactions. <a>20:34 </a>Pressure and Expectations. <a>23:31 </a>Judgments and Defamation. <a>24:21 </a>Worth the Watch? <a>29:26 </a>Wrap-Up and Reflections. <a>30:08 </a>Exploring New Shows. <a>35:18 </a>Salad Kits and Midnight Snacks. <a>38:33 </a>Listener Engagement and Farewell.
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